- Be more accepting. Focus on blessings. Contentment (count your blessings, not your problems).
- It takes time getting used to your situation and fills up the emptiness.
- Spend time socializing (e.g. attend events, courses, volunteer work, etc).
- Know and be clear about what you want. What you’re pursuing, will it please Allah or yourself? If not, it might cause you more harm than good.
- Have someone to talk to (especially your problems, but never repeat over and over again in a short period of time). Avoid being alone when you're alone, you'll feel more down (double down). Look at the other party’s response, tell-tale (if shows no interest, stop. Don’t make yourself feel worst).
- Never set a wrong mindset that no one would want to listen to you as it may be you didn't notice or not destined. (Optimistic)
- Do not be demanding, not everyone willing to spend their time with you (in any way).
- Open up, be frank, don't keep to own self.
- No one understands? No one gets you? No one to talk to? Lonely at home? At work? In life? It's common to feel left out. Come from good, bad, broken, well-bonded family? It happens to anyone.
- Find peace and tranquillity.
- There's a Hikmah, to develop you into a stronger and better person, even better than you already are. Soo much straining to develop greater emotions: toughens you up (The broken will always be able to love harder than most. Once you've been in the dark, you learn to appreciate everything that shines).
- Key Surah: Surah Yusuf!
- Choose to stay down or get back up and do something.
- The more you give the more you get. Love and be loved. “Love amongst you and the inhabitants of the heaven will love you”.
- Do everything sincerely, ikhlas.
- Good things come when you least expect them.
- Need you to lose people or things because if you have everything you might feel nothing special.
- Take the time you have alone to declutter and clearing up your mess, problem-free.
- What we focus on expands, so never focus on the negativity.
- Suicidal never an option!
- Fill the emptiness with Islamic stuff. And YES, have to be practical! Worldly stuff too, just not too attached.
- La tahzan, inallaha ma’ana
- Never say you’re independent and block everything out.
- Never say noone will never accept me for my past mistakes, bad looks, etc (all your negative thoughts of yourself or your past).
- MOST MERCIFUL OF THE MERCIFUL!
- Do more charity and give donations (even if got injured due insects bites, etc is a charitable action)
- Have Iman? Cherish it.
- Time alone is good for muhasabah (self-assessment) but not to the extent that it starts to make you feel better than with people around.
- Make use of the time to reflect on what to improve: family, marriage, etc. Do not self-pity!
- Never wear a mask, put a wall, barbed wire (LOL) around you to block people.
- Never say no to what Allah is giving you (when you feel you’re receiving them).
- Replace or walk away from people who left or leaving or walking away from you. "If you have to convince someone to stay with you, then they have already left."
- Do yourself a favor; stop hoping for something you think is impossible for you.
- Don’t place all your happiness to one person. People will leave. But trust and give the opportunity to those you feel worth it to you. But never replace family.
- Never taste the sweetness of faith until you can love Allah because people can come and go. When you feel like you have nothing, you have Allah and when you have Allah, you have everything. Again, that shouldn’t stop you from having a human relation.
- You just can’t do it all alone at times, YES. Get someone who is willing to walk with you.
- Be moderately independent.
Move towards a more meaningful life.