Why Do People We Love Leave Us
- Al-Mulk (01-02): "Blessed is He in whose hand in dominion, and He is over all things competent. He who created death and life to test you as to which of you is best in deed and He is the exhaled in might, the forgiving."
- Lots of breakups in marriage is due to prolonged unhappiness (unsolved matters swept under the carpet; time-bomb)
- 1: Infidelity.
- 2: Love (Disappearance, missing link not fulfilled, etc)
- Why must this happen to me?:
- Moments for self reflection; internally & externally.
- Self improvement
- Turn back to our Creator (as we might have drifted away from Him)
- From tests, Allah wants us to gain life lessons (emotions, strength, etc)
- Love can be fixed; need to rekindle
- Not just with words, actions are important too
- Go for retreats or spend more time talking (attend to the emotional needs of your spouse)
- When granted with a spouse, to treat them well as it's a test too. (with love, affection, fulfill individual duties and responsibilities): Allah will help.
- Allah will endow with His mercy.
- Ar-Rum (21):"He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and he placed bet you affection and mercy. indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought".
"The Best of You is the Best to His Family"